www.purposedpassion.com Networking with S.T.Y.L.E & Composure

Module 1:

Networking with S.T.Y.L.E & Composure

Internalize S.T.Y.L.E as the heartbeat of Effective Networking. Realize that your purpose in life should be orientated around building goodwill. Build yourself first and always consider what’s in it for me but yet being tactful and sincere to others at the same time. Do it for yourself and than society and most importantly, give credit where credit is due. Never limit your praises as a simple word of praise or encouragement can have such great impact on one’s life. Its effortless if you choose to live life with a ‘giving’ habit and choose to realize and enjoy the happiness you create for yourself and those you impact.

Once an individual masters such a lifestyle of S.T.Y.L.E, people will be naturally attracted to you. It is as if you have been magnetized to an extent that you polarize everyone you meet. You would not be able to control how fast your network will expand or how the ‘Law of Attraction’ seems to settle in so perfectly. You will start realizing your true potential once you are able to leverage on the strengths of others and help them maximize their network wealth as well.

Life is so much more than that next Boon Tong Kee’s Chicken Rice meal or that new BMW that you have been dreaming to buy for 4 ¾ years. Its about running after your passion and helping others along the way. Its about building your network, learning from their strengths, improving yourself continuously and than giving it back and letting this value grow and expand to its optimal potential.

S: SOPHISTICATION

• Carrying yourself with the utmost class and never letting your guard down
• Living your life as an uplifting enlightenment to others
• Never compromising your integrity to ‘fit’ into the crowd
• Being true to yourself and living according to your morals and values
• Realizing who you really are and outwardly living life transparently and with royalty

T: TACTFULNESS

• Identifying your personal limits and limitations and acknowledging society’s boundaries
• Realizing that you are a unique and separate entity with great influence and impact on others
• Especially take into consideration the feelings of those who love and care for you

Y: “YOU” ATTITUDE’

• Protect and watch out for yourself first before your can share and take care of others
• Living life with sincerity and never network with ulterior motives
• Watching your back at all times and never sharing crucial information till the time is right and after a proper analysis of that individual
• Building trust is paramount
• Give and create value before expecting or asking for anything in return
• Make Giving a priority
• Keeping your loved ones in your prayers at all times
• Making Blessings a priority

L: LANGUAGE PERFECTION

• Speaking life into lives
• Focusing on the positive aspects of each situation
• E.g. Overflowing cup example v.s half filled and half empty argument
• Speaking Eloquently
• Knowing when to make an intelligent comment and when to remain silent
• And understanding how to distinguish between the two
• Discovering who you are and using proper eloquence to package yourself and your emphasize your strengths

• Mastering the Art of Appeal
• Don’t Attack
• Don’t Accuse
• Rather learn to Approach and Not Assume

E: ENTHUSIASM

• Doing everything with passion
• Internalizing that your actions and thoughts create your history and legacy
• Being open to new opportunities and different types of people and their views
• Realizing that life is what you make of it and that your thought and actions are the fundamental of your future

Everything we do in life is a testimony either to promote ourselves or something we believe in. No matter what the situation or circumstance is, each moment of our life is a test. This is regardless of whether we are willingly and consciously aware or even if we are caught off guard or are ignorant. As individuals we must act responsibly and realize that you can not dictate whom you will next meet and what role of influence he/she will ultimately play in your life. There is always one first impression you can make and though we are thought not to judge a book by its cover, it’s the cover of the book that usually attracts the potential reader or person or opportunity in your life.

Sad to say you can never be off duty instead on duty 24/7 to build your empire of influence and goodwill. Each day and minute passes by and its what you best make of it that really matters.

Internalize the fact that you were created for greater things than your mind can conceive. You need to believe that you were designed for the times and the times were designed for you. Each one of us has been blessed by various gifts, be it a powerful voice to sing or the innate confidence to stir up a crowd through public speaking or be it the ability to run faster than everyone else with such great ease. It is our responsibility to first acknowledge, develop and use it for a greater purpose. We need to identify that we were blessed by gifts so that could be equipped and capable to be a GIFT to others. Imagine how much better the world would be if everyone realized this powerful calling and willingly shared their time or lend a helping hand to their neighbours. Think about the ripple effect and magnification of happiness this would create. We all need to know that we are a part of a greater purpose and start making decisions that is fruitful to others as well as ourselves.